Let's help each other
Denny a.k.a. Beardy Guy in Are you bending the knee to fascism?:
We can help each other to do these things. We can quit iCloud, Google, Microsoft, Amazon, and Meta. We can take more responsibility for our data and teach our friends and family less technically adept do the same.
Reach out if you're ready to start this journey, but lost with regards to how. I'll be happy to give you some pointers. One good place to begin is Denny's journey from Apple to Linux.